FAQs

What is the dress code for your wedding?

1. Formal or semi-formal attire.

2. That daring dress or suit in the back of your closet you haven’t found a good excuse to show off. We’d love to see it.

3. Drag and/or Couture.

4. Steampunk, Baroque cosplay, Ren Faire apparel.

5. Sequins, rhinestones, feather boas, spikes, pins, patches, cheetah print, tiger stripes, leather pants, kilts.

... that said, we know fashion is fun for some and stressful for others. If you want to keep it simple, that’s great too!


Are children welcome?

Yes! The Skamania Lodge is a great place for families! There are many activities on-site if you’d like to make a vacation out of it!

We will be providing childcare during the ceremony and reception portions of Saturday. We encourage parents to let their children stay with our childcare providers (they will be set up next door to the reception space) because we want you to feel like you can be fully present, and hopefully enjoy a night off, but that is up to you!


Will there be vegan/vegetarian/gluten-free food options?

Yes! The wedding isn’t in Portland, but we are Portlanders after all. We will make sure that your dietary needs are met. If we’ve left something out, please let us know.


Is there someone I can contact if I have any other questions about the wedding?

Yes! For now, you can reach out to either Richard or Carolyn. If and when we delegate things to someone else, we’ll update this page.